Football didn't come home

Frome Valley Voice Article Aug 2018 Well Football didn’t come home, our Andy didn’t win, or indeed even participate in Wimbledon, and surely by the time you read this in August, our incredible heat wave will have come to an end. Nothing lasts forever. Even the best things come to an end. The good news is that so do all bad things as well. There are two possible responses to this reality, one is to bemoan how everything is changing, the other is to decide to live and make the best we can of each moment and day. I am now officially a grumpy old man, I was only two when England last won a world cup semi-final, and I seem to be naturally improving at the bemoaning option! But this really doesn’t help me, and frankly is a pain to live with. So with help I try to find a way to make the best of each day. The trouble is this is easier said than done, especially when our hopes or dreams have been shattered. So how can we change our mind-set, and improve our attitudes. Here I have some advice. The first is, get a dog! I am only slightly joking. Wandering home after Croatia pipped us to the post in a semi-final, suddenly became more bearable, when my dog looked at me with her tilted head saying, ‘you’ve left me in, all on my own, while you were out enjoying yourself, will you play with me now?’ ‘Please!!’ Even at my grumpiest, I can’t resist a dog! Another thought that helps is to have in mind each day the things that are really important and treasure them. I realise this is in danger of becoming a circular argument. For if the things you treasure are the very things that you have lost, like the hope of England ever winning a world cup, ever! Then you are in trouble. Here perspective is required. I barely dare say this, but football is, ‘only a game.’ A great game, I’ll grant you, but nevertheless, a game. Here is my great sadness, for I fear that for some of us, we treasure nothing more than our tribe, our team winning. Or else we treasure something else, of really limited meaning or worth. I think this is related to what the Bible talks of as Idolatry. Making something your treasure that ultimately has very limited value. So if you can’t get a dog, then my advice is look deep and find something in your heart that you really treasure, something that is valuable and gives deep meaning. For many people this treasure is their relationships or friends. But I know people who become champions, passionately engaged in all manner of worthy pursuits. Find something that fulfils you and work a little towards it each day. For me this treasure is Jesus. I realise to some this sounds strange, but Jesus is not really a religious conviction, more a personal friend and guide. When I’m feeling grumpy, I can meet him in my heart and catch a whiff of his love for others. He expands my heart whenever I notice him in the beauty of creation that surrounds us, from the tiniest flower to the entire sky mottled in an evening sunset. But most of all I treasure Jesus when I encounter him in the people I meet, both Christians and non-Christians, whenever they display a richness of generosity, love or just simple fun. On a gloomy day when I’m feeling grumpy (so for me that is most mornings!) I need to look for my treasure. Once the dog has licked me or chewed my sandals, I need to open my eyes and find the richest thing that I can imagine and invest my heart into that treasure. As Jesus said, ‘for where your heart is, there your treasure will be.’ So football didn’t come home. But I came home and found peace in my dog and my God! Stephen Newell

50 Anniversaries 100 Covenant Services and many Baptisms

(All are invited to our Coffee morning and Exhibition Sat 27th Jan 10-12. And our 50th anniversary service Sun 28th 10.30am)

Happy Birthday to us, Happy Birthday to us.... Thank the Lord for all his blessings, Happy Birthday to Zion.

50 years is a lifetime... Well nearly all my lifetime! The folk who brought Zion together from different churches are simply to be congratulated. In a world where division and enmity are so prevalent 4 families coming together is surely a worthwhile moment to celebrate.

50 years also proves that God has blessed our unity as Psalm 133 says: God rejoices when brothers and sisters dwell together in unity he calls it, wonderful and beautiful. I believe our history shows that God has poured out his blessing, his costly anointing oil of love.

Our story involves people who have been blessed to experience the Holy Spirit, blessed with an attitude of generosity and blessed with a willingness to learn from each other. Our two parent denominations have both gone through times of considerable decline and yet Zion has welcomed many new worshippers over the years. Even recently we have had the privilege of welcoming Maria by Baptism, alongside our annual service of recommitment and covenant.

Mind you reflecting on past blessings should not make us arrogant, or complacent. The attitude that was prepared to see things change which facilitated four churches uniting, or the attitude which believed in a God of abundance not austerity, and so insisted that we give to others 10% of our income must continue. A mind-set of Fair Trade which receives freely of God's love and grace in the hope that we can then share generously with others is the only one which can ensure our health and celebration for 50 more years!

As Paul wrote to the Philippians: 'Your attitude should be the same as that of Christ Jesus, who although he was God, did not consider equality with God something to be grasped. Rather he emptied himself. Taking the form of a human servant, and became obedient even to the point of death on a cross. (Phil 2:5-8 my paraphrase.) Here we see the example, or the blueprint of Jesus. He was by nature God and so chose to give, in order that others may share in his life. The willingness of those who have gone before us to sacrifice 'their' church to discover a new life together, should inspire us. As I have said many times, the core reality of being a Christian is that we are deeply blessed: we receive from God, a deep love, an invitation and experience of a wonderful relationship. We are filled, we are blessed, we are made new by His grace and love. This is a free and wonderful gift. The only right response is to be prepared to respond in love towards others. The depth of God's love for us, should be matched only by our willingness to love those he places around us. We are blessed to bless.

Please do not misunderstand me, I am aware Zion, like every other family is very much an imperfect church. We suffer the same weaknesses as any other grouping. However over the years there have been those who have sparked us forward, with generosity, valour and deep grace. It is time for us to pass this flame forward. As the hymn says, we are ransomed, healed, restored, forgiven... So we must by God's outpoured grace become those who heal, set others free from shame, restore and forgive. If we do this, with God's on-going help, I believe we may yet serve God's wonderful kingdom purposes of love for yet another 50 years.

We are truly blessed. O lord God send your spirit to help us once again share that blessing with others.
Stephen

Malcolm Strange's New Year Greeting

Happy New Year

As you read this article the echo of that greeting will have faded, the empty bottles will have been put out for collection (recycling I hope), the party popper streams cleared up, the final cold turkey consumed and fancy nibbles safely tucked away inside our tummies! The celebrations are over and a New Year has begun. What will the New Year bring I wonder?

Well you don’t have to be a prophet to know that Brexit and Trump will dominate the headlines, with political posturing being at the forefront of negotiations and rhetoric, like some kind of ritual performed by strident males looking for a mate or cock birds showing off their plumage in a courting dance to attract the attention of a disinterested female. Sadly, in the political world very little changes, there is very little reflection on the mistakes of the past, just excuses and buck passing!

If I dare, lets forget the international stage for a moment and just reflect on ourselves. New Year is a time for new beginnings, drawing a line in the sand as it were, a fresh page and a new start. We reflect on the old and embrace the new in away which goes well beyond the trivia of New Years resolutions so easily broken.

Ironically this annual ritual of reflection that many engage in is somewhat Christian in its nature, in that it reflects what is at the heart of the ‘Christian Faith’ and the story we celebrate at both Christmas and Easter. God forgives and loves his creation and all he asks in return is that we reflect that same love to each other and by doing so become a transformed people. As Christians we reflect on what we get wrong, lay it at the foot of the cross and then strive to walk in the light of the Gospel.

It has been said the main purpose of the Church is to be; ‘A People of Forgiven Sinners’. If you have messed up and hurt someone there is no greater joy than to know you have been forgiven by them, to receive that loving embrace that says it is ok, the experience is quite liberating. Christians believe that through Christ, God imparts spiritual forgiveness and amazingly it is freely available for all. Now that’s what I call good news.

So as you reflect on what this ‘New Year’ holds for you take a few moments to consider what needs letting go off in your life, what is holding you back from embracing the new with a renewed hope. Be prepared to draw a line in the sand, say sorry, let go and be prepared to forgive yourself. Remember the love shared in the Christmas story and take heart that ‘To all and to each where regret is real, God pronounces pardon and grants us the right to begin again’. Happy New Year.

Revd Malcolm Strange

Rector of the Fromeside Benefice

Only 'humans' welcome

I read this morning, on Facebook admittedly, that some people are planning to boycott Tesco because their Christmas advert includes pictures of Muslims. My friends response was less than helpful: “FANTASTIC!! Now we won't have to rub shoulders with quite as many ignorant Islamophobic bigots while we queue to buy our sprouts! RESULT! :-)”  Contrastingly Tesco’s campaign is entitled ‘Everyone Welcome!’

To me this raises massive questions of identity and how we define ourselves. Are we a ‘Christian’ country? Are those who object to Muslims (interestingly they seem to ignore that Sikh’s were also depicted in the ad!) regular church goer’s, and thus bastion supporters of the Christian faith? I doubt it, or more accurately I really hope not. Worshipping God should teach us of love and respect for each person whatever their beliefs and wherever they are from, as fellow citizens made with God’s image within us. Sadly I fear that too often we define ourselves by what we are not, ‘like them’ rather than who we are and what we value and love. Jesus taught that we should love our neighbour and even our enemies, as we love ourselves, he indicated that ‘the poor’ were people who would possess the kingdom of God. His rule was that we are never ‘good’ or ‘righteous’ because we are not like ‘them.’ Real goodness (dare I say Christianity) is discovered by finding ways to treat other as we would like to be treated ourselves. It can’t work if in Frampton and Coalpit Heath we define ourselves as happy simply because we don’t live in say Yate, or that we don’t want a huge new building development on our doorstep, or even dare I say that we are not from one of the ‘fairground families,’ we are not refugees, we want to be out of Europe, we are not like America, and we really really are not ‘terrorists’ or Muslims. (I place the words Muslim and terrorist close together as I wish to highlight the foolishness of thinking that these two words may be equated together.)

I am a natural optimist, and I hope I’m right in detecting that younger generations are struggling against some of these old stereotypes. I detect a healthy desire for communal solutions that include the ‘other’ with initiatives which offer hope to all.  Although this generation does not seem to be turning back to the church, I certainly believe that the church needs to learn from this development, and indeed repent of some attitudes towards those who were once seen as different. I admit I am no fan of huge corporations like Tesco, I do suspect that they have their finger on an important pulse with their slogan, ‘Everyone Welcome.’

A more careful look at the Christmas story may be helpful. Mary was almost certainly an unmarried, albeit betrothed pregnant teenager. She arrived in the wake of a huge influx into Bethlehem as practically a refugee. Does the refrain, ‘there is no room’ ring any bells when we consider the housing situation in our country, with housing accounting for vast swathes of personal wealth and yet where increasing numbers are either homeless or living in poor quality rented accommodation. As a Christian I believe this is the story of Messiah, the liberator. I cannot operate with the idea that those who are different from me are not welcome, because if that is the case, I have no room for a homeless poverty laden Jesus. Even his first guests are from the wrong side of town, night security staff who had seen visions of angels and left their post to find a baby. Can you even imagine the scorn that their HR department would have given in the disciplinary that followed!

I recently prayed for myself that I might become more righteous. (Those who know me will recognise this is a prayer long overdue for a ‘Man of the Cloth.’ Even my wife never believed I was going to be a minister when I first met her!) But then I realised what do I mean by that prayer? Do I want a righteousness that somehow thinks of myself as better than others, defined by all the things I am not! Or do I want a shining love that always draws others up seeing the potential in everyone whoever they are, whether they are Muslim or Atheist, rich or poor. Oh Lord, give me the latter and help me to rid myself of the former. And thank you that Christmas really proves that everyone is welcome.  

Stephen

PS There are of course other supmermarkets… and indeed many other Christmas Ad’s oh that there weren’t and we’d all learnt the contentment of shopping locally, with ethically sourced Fairly Traded goods…. But that’s another thought all together!

Back to Basics

There is nothing I like better than a little project. I am writing today with a sore finger, because I hit it with a hammer. (No one said anything about being good at my little projects!) Still the shed is standing proudly at the bottom of the garden, and although it isn’t watertight yet it has survived its first night in the wilds! Hopefully the felting and the battening will happen soon, once the wood’s had a chance to dry out.

              The practice of our Christian Faith is not a little project. It is not something we can do, or perfect and then it is finished. The Christian faith, or discipleship as I often call it, is a whole life adventure. It is the nurturing of a relationship which in turn will influence the whole of your life, your thoughts, actions and practices. As such it is more akin to a committed marriage than to an exciting, albeit often destructive fling. Christianity is not something that we ‘hammer’ (ow) home rather it is a love that is always surrounding us, which we can invite to seep into our hearts and minds, so that we are increasingly immersed in that love, and it thus becomes a key to our very identity. 

              How does this happen? Well I have been struck lately that in order for this way of life to take root, we may need a bit of a clear out. There is probably some thinking and attitudes that need throwing out before we then get back to some of the basics.

              I have found reading through one of the oldest books in the New Testament, Thessalonians very helpful. The basics are all there, God’s love for us and our loving one another, but I’ve realised there are challenges as well. Most of us have grown up or inherited an idea that we don’t really talk about our faith, that faith is a private affair. A bit like a hidden fling, this is a disastrous idea. I’m struck in Thessalonians just how public and open Paul is. The other fascinating reality is the way Paul focuses on relationships. He is not interested in maintaining an institution. Although there probably was a ‘church’ in Thessaloniki, Paul is maintaining relationships, he is loving, and cajoling and teaching, ‘people’ that he clearly loves. Everything is personal, and in that sense real.  Too often my thoughts equate faith with an institution, in my case Zion. Don’t misunderstand me, I love Zion and feel privileged, with the trust that I have been given, but Zion is people and our relationships together and with God. Rather than to ‘fight’ or ‘labour’ for an institution, we need to relax and enjoy and love one another. This is the real basics of our discipleship, knowing we are loved we are relaxed and learning to love. Or as Jesus said, come to me if you’re tired and weary. Worn out on religion, take my yoke, my calling to love one another into your heart, for it fits perfectly and will give you rest for your souls. (Matt 11:28-30 Paraphrased by me!)

              May God bless us as we relax, and allow God’s love to seep into our hearts.

Stephen

PS It is OK to talk about this stuff with others, our experience is of value. 

May you live in interesting times!

There is apparently a Chinese curse which says ‘May you live in interesting times.’ Although the background of this saying is not clear, Albert Camus and Robert Kennedy certainly believed in it. The inference is, according to another Chinese Proverb, that it is better to be a dog in peace than a man in anarchy! Certainly the times that we are living through are ‘interesting.’ What ultimately will BREXIT mean, will the Scots get another chance at independence, and will they take it, and of course how will other world players such as Trump or Putin eventually be remembered?

The reality is that society is constantly changing. But what type of society do we want to see? With the NHS, social care and education squeezed of funds do we want a society where all are expected to fend for themselves or where we all have a societal responsibility to one another? Are we comfortable in a free for all market of opportunities and pitfalls, or do we envisage society as a family where over time each plays their part? Even after Brexit or possible Scottish independence, the reality of Global Trade means the massive question of who is in, or who left out of any society we imagine will remain. Climate change and the reality of mass economic migration from areas of either deprivation or instability are other undeniable realities. Have we indeed been cursed to live in ‘interesting times?’

Gandhi said we must become the change we wish to see for society to be transformed. For me that means becoming a person who treats each ‘other’ that I encounter as someone of divine worth. My rationale for this comes from understanding a God who ‘shows no favouritism.’ I live in Frampton, England, however God is not tribal pro one group and against another. Many misunderstand this. We may hear that God calls and chooses particular individuals and we mistakenly understand this as an elitist calling out, a separation FROM others. People even speak of their country as ‘God’s own country.’ I believe this is a fundamental error. God’s calling is FOR others. God chooses and calls with a purpose to release our potential to bring blessing to others. To be called is not to be special but it is to have a purpose. A mother is called to love and nurture, an engineer to imagine and build safely things that help others to flourish. A friend is called to stand alongside in times of need. Our truest calling and purpose is always discovered through serving others.

So we live in ‘interesting times!’ I do not believe this to be a curse, we do not need to be in fear of those who are different. Rather their difference is an opportunity for us to rediscover our purpose. We have been chosen for this time and we can demonstrate this calling by treating others as we would love to be treated.

With Easter approaching this concept of calling is reinforced. However else Jesus’ mission might be understood it was not so that he could show how separate and great he was. You would find Jesus with the outcasts of his time. His calling always for others: good news for the poor, freedom for the oppressed and sight for those who were blind. If your times were ‘interesting’ he was exactly the sort of person you wanted beside you. Christians believe even his sacrificial death is somehow for OTHERS. Even in interesting times he was a man of the people and for the people.

Stephen Newell

A Christmas Reflection

Different Stories about God:

              It seems to me that there are two equal and opposite narratives about the place of God in our world. In my humble opinion, (and those who know me realise I rarely have humble opinions!) both are wrong.

              The first narrative, looks at the festival of Christmas and says a large Baa Humbug. They are convinced that there is no basis for this celebration, other than a good excuse to have a party at the darkest time of year. They believe, sometimes very passionately, that God has no place in this world whatsoever. They are convinced that despite all the mystery and complexity of creation and all the depths and pathos of relationships that there is nothing ultimately giving meaning to all that we experience.  These folk are actually people of great faith, even though they claim to be entirely rational. As a previous archbishop once said, they believe that nothing made everything out of nothing, whereas his faith only stretched to believe that something created everything out of nothing.

              The second narrative, is in my view equally troubling. Those who adhere to this story call themselves people of faith, but actually they are in danger of peddling superstitions which simply justify their decisions, actions and often inaction.  In their understanding God is all powerful and everything is down to him. Within this motif the issue of responsibility becomes blurred. If God is all powerful and ultimately everything is down to the will of God, then we now longer have to take responsibility for our actions.

I want to highlight a misreading of the Christmas story to illustrate how this misrepresentation can blunt our understanding and divert us from our true calling as partners with God in restoring his beautiful, wonderful world. Our image of the Christmas story became skewed by a Victorian mistranslation of the greek word ‘kataluma.’ We translate it as an inn, or hotel, whereas all it really meant was guest room. We are all under the impression that Joseph and Mary struggled through Bethlehem with nowhere to stay before the miraculous baby Jesus was born in a stable with no-one to help. We all have images of multiple other ‘innkeepers’ all dressed with suitable tea towels shaking their heads and sending the poor couple away. But God’s plans cannot be thwarted….. because God is God, and so the baby is born, almost despite humanity and so begins the life of Jesus, with no-one to help apart from the practically God like Mary his mother.

The text actually reads that while they were in Bethlehem, probably staying at a relative of Joseph’s, Mary’s time came. She had the child and wrapped him up and laid him in a manger. There you are you say she must have been in a stable… because a manger is a cattle feeding trough. True it is, but in those days most of the houses had mangers in them, because the animals normally stayed in the house at night, to keep the house warm. Your goat and donkey and Ox were your very own central heating! (Smelly boiler!) The average normal house in Bethlehem was a single room, with a raised level where the people lived, and a lower level at one end where the animals would roost. In the floor at that end there was often a carved out hole, a manger: that the animals would eat from. At the other end of slightly more ‘upmarket’ houses there was a guest room, sleeping area. Real posh houses had their guest rooms upstairs!

So with this information the traditional nativity where God bursts into life despite callous innkeepers and indifferent relatives suddenly is transformed. Mary and Joseph are almost certainly part of a normal extended family, but Mary has to lay her baby in the ‘manger’ because the guest room is already occupied by the wider family or other travellers. What we discover is the intense ordinariness of the scene. The difference to normal life was not what happened, but rather what was happening. God’s son was being born in the normal humble circumstances of everyday life.

You see rather than God working despite us, all of God’s dealings show that God is passionately interested in working with us. Between this absent God or the God who does everything is what I believe is the true picture of God, one who works with us and through us, who longs for a partnership relationship. The pinnacle of this is actually the Christmas story. God and humanity tied together, the majesty of God, expressed as a vulnerable ordinary child, wrapped in cloths and lying in a manger like so many other ordinary children before and since. What this means is that we cannot expect God to do our dirty work, or to sort everything out for us, but we can expect him to strengthen us, encourage us and help us to become his working ambassadors.

Christmas tells us that the light shines in the world. However the reality is that unless we choose to reflect that light, and to live in that light then the light will not penetrate the darkness. Please do not misunderstand me, I am not saying that God cannot do all things, that he could not sort the world’s brokenness in a single flash. I am saying that God has chosen a different pathway. There are legitimate questions that you might ask from there, such as why does God not act more decisively to end the evil and brokenness in the world. But again we are in danger of passing the buck, of implying again that it is all God’s fault. The truth of Christmas is that God has acted decisively, he has made his choice. He has chosen to inhabit humanity, to work with us, not despite us. He took full responsibility for his choice, in the birth, life and death of his Son Jesus Christ. When will we awaken to the reality that now the responsibility is ours, not to walk alone, but to live in a partnership with the love that created heaven and earth: the one who is passionate to eat with us, drink with us, laugh, rejoice, weep, mourn and dance with us. God has chosen to love you, nothing you do will deflect him from that choice. However for that love to become an expression of his beautiful healing love in the world, you have to accept that love and allow it to become an integral part of who you are. That is for you to know yourself as a full partner with God. That is what is meant by being a Christian, put most simply it means, Christ-i -an, I am in Christ and Christ is in me.